I am on a self-imposed writing vacation until the New Year. I do have a couple of manuscripts that need my attention for another smaller press, but I’m tired. So tired. And with the holidays coming right up, I decided to enjoy some Christmas with my family and forget about work for a couple of weeks.
This doesn’t normally go well. I tend to get frustrated without something to work on, but I’m determined to keep myself occupied. There are Christmas movies to watch, if I can convince my family to watch them with me… I’d also like to try my hand at some heart-stopping coconut milk hot chocolate. (Coconut oil isn’t good for the old ticker…)
Right this very moment, I’m propped up on my unmade bed, computer on my lap, listening to my husband make plans for us to go sledding with another family.
I will thoroughly enjoy my Christmas holiday, even if it kills me. LOL! (But with coconut milk hot chocolate… really, what a way to go!)
What am I missing? I need more holiday ideas! 
PJ you are attempting a difficult task. Letting go of your own busy work goals or setting them aside is noble at Christmas. However, one goalsetting drive grasping for another seldom wraps anyone in joy
i can attest to that. Give yourself grace and permission to enjoy time with family and friends -no goals. It takes 5days for the brain to catch on to the heart of vacations unhurried treasures. 
so breath. Have tea. Watch snow fall, catch flakes on your tongue. There are a zillion joys waiting for you and your family. 
It takes 5 days to get into the vacation mode, does it? Well then, there’s hope. LOL! It’s a matter of learning how to slow down, and it takes me a bit to get there.
It’s time to let someone else make the plans… go with the flow. Rellax and allow someone else the joy of planning. But. if you have t od something. wny not talk a family walk? I’m sure you can find a safe place to walk. And walking is good for your heart. Put away the paper and pen (computer) and allow peace to enter your heart.